If the guy you're dating doesn't seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start 'figuring him out', please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be into you. And then free yourself to go find the one that is.Move on, sister! Cut your losses and don't waste time. Why stay in some weird dating limbo when you can move on to what will surely be better territory?A man would rather be trampled by elephants that are on fire than to tell you that hes just not that into you.If a guy is into you, he will call you=)

An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of 'ruining the friendship'.Hes just not that into you if he's not calling you. Men know how to use the phone.The 'But hes got a lot on his mind" excuse. When you like someone, they don't just slip your mind.The word 'busy' is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call.Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.If he's not calling you, its because you're not on his mind=)

Lets call cheating what it is: a complete betrayal of trust.There is no excuse for cheating. Let me say it again. There is no excuse for cheating. Now you say it. There is no excuse for cheating.Cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter whom it was with or how many times it happened.Know you deserve not just an affectionate, attention boyfriend, but you deserve an affectionate, attentive, sober one.Bad boys are actually bad.If he only wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when hes inebriated, it ain't love -its sport.Don't spend your time and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.He's just not that into you if he's breaking up with you. 'I don't want to go out with you' means just that. Build a bridge, and get over it.

No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.Regardless of how much his relationship sucks or how awful his girlfriend is to him, it obviously isn't that bad or he would get out of it. A good relationship should not be lived in secrecy. Go find yourself one that worth living out loud.

I know things seem a lot easier when your affair is with a guy whose girlfriend is an evil, shrieking, insulting hag. No matter what their relationship or circumstances are, you are still helping a guy cheat on his girlfriend. Let's agree you're better than that.Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.Don't be that girl. And that girl is what Id like to call a home wrecker. A home wrecker is nothing else but a BITCH. If you don't want it to happen to you, don't do it to others. SIMPLE as that.Forget about him and his good qualities. Even forget about his bad ones. Forget about all his excuses and what he promises. Ask yourself one question only: Is he making you happy?

taken from my facebook=)
pretty meaningful...